Self-Compassion dalam Praktik Konseling Online dan Perspektif Islam

Abi Fa’izzarahman Prabawa, Eni Rindi Antika, Mulawarman Mulawarman

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Self-Compassion (welas asih) merupakan kondisi diri yang terbuka dan mau untuk memahami penderitaan diri, tidak berusaha untuk menghindar dan memiliki komitmen tinggi untuk meringankannya. Self-compassion dalam perkembangannya digunakan sebagai kompetensi yang diperlukan oleh seorang konselor untuk membantu konseli dalam layanan konseling. Self-compassion yang dimiliki oleh seorang konselor dapat ditransfer kepada konseli melalui sikap konselor, komunikasi konseling, serta dalam membangun hubungan konseling. Compassion dalam Islam dikenal dengan Rahma yang diartikan sebagai Mengasihi. Seorang konselor haruslah menjadi orang yang dapat mengasihi, memberikan kenyamanan, keterbukaan, solutif, dan kerahasiaan dalam konseling (terapeutic relationship). Artikel ini bertujuan mengkaji self-compassion dalam praktik konseling online dan perspektifnya dalam Islam.

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Self-Compassion; welas asih; konseling online; konselor; islam

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